Aleena can be very flirtatious, but she far from does it with every female character. I've toned it down a lot and actually have avoided a situation recently where flirting would have been appropriate by the other party. I knew I was playing close to edge at times and have dialed it back.
This never happened and if you have proof of it, I'd love to see it.
I would like examples of these complaints so I know how to improve playing her. As for leaving the Horizon, that always comes with the caveat that she can't due to IC reasons.
Aleena hasn't kissed anyone at all since that, only touched hair in hugs that were consented to and I know what you're talking about with looking at the hands, she was remembering something, nothing more and she hasn't touched anyone's hands without consent since this happened.
This is because Aleena is very damaged from a near-relationship and a real relationship gone bad, her self-confidence and self-esteem is shot among other other things. By the time you made this complaint, she was actually improving.
Aleena is focusing on socializing and has made at least one friend since the socialization session. She doesn't touch people without asking anymore, the flirting has gone down a lot, and she is working on getting friends.
I'm kind of taken aback you think this is an OOC issue, if I was as miserable as you are alluding to here, I wouldn't even play the game.
Aleena has an arc in this and its already begun to turn a corner. If I am still doing something wrong, then I can gladly change how she is played.