You were not banned for this, you were not given a warning for this, you were not given a note. You were not even bwoinked about this. You were just told to knock it off in OOC, as your logs reveal. There was nothing hostile about this either, though you still apparently do not understand that it is not appropriate to be talking about tajara genitalia in OOC (regardless of the history of the server). You were told to knock it off and then seemingly left acting like I was going to ban you for this if you stayed any longer.
I am not sure what you expect to be done here. There is no world where you're going to be allowed to discuss genitalia or sexual topics in OOC. This is not an 18+ server, and tajara sex is certainly an 18+ topic. I've got nothing else to say here until the handling staff members take the complaint.