Voyd2000 Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 BYOND Key: Voyd2000 Staff BYOND Key: Killerhurtz Reason for complaint: Overly hostile, Implying I'm doing/being things I'm not Evidence/logs/etc: Moderator PM from-Killerhurtz: You've been opening doors for the medical team?(Accusing not asking) PM to-Killerhurtz: fixing windows they keep smashing, PM to-Killerhurtz: cleaning floors, doors do open. Moderator PM from-Killerhurtz: So you didn't purposefully assist a team of medics in getting to injured people? PM to-Killerhurtz: they smashed their way in, I was moving around to fix and clean. Moderator PM from-Killerhurtz: A player claims you distinctively did it though. Moderator PM from-Killerhurtz: Maybe you stopped in a door to chat OOC or something? I just want to know what happened to make sure PM to-Killerhurtz: they claim wrong, what's the players key? maybe it's meta hate or the mouse I killed. Moderator PM from-Killerhurtz: Don't take that tone on me. I'm not accusing you of anything. My job is to get the facts straight and solve situations. (inconsistent with open statement of accusation) Moderator PM from-Killerhurtz: I believe both of you and that's why I'm asking questions. PM to-Killerhurtz: tone? no tone, the med team got into the bridge by smashing and ducking into doors as i moved around, I'm not following crew commands. Moderator PM from-Killerhurtz: I said I believed you and I was about to close the case, but now you're getting awfully defensive. It's okay if you did, I just wanted to tell you that if you did you shouldn't because drones are supposed to play like crew was invisible. PM to-Killerhurtz: what do you mean? I'm not being anything o.O geez. Additional remarks: I don't like being painted in colors that I'm not, I was answering and telling my side/actions of the event. Not being defensive or anything emotional this staff was making me out to be. don't appreciate it one bit when I did nothing wrong.
Frances Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 I don't know if it's me, but Killerhurtz's opening statement seems fairly neutral. Like they wanted to bring up/verify the fact, but there wasn't anything accusatory about it. No clue why they called you out for your tone, though. There wasn't anything wrong with it either.
Killerhurtz Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 I could have phrased it differently, but I didn't mean it as "you've done this for sure" but "have you done this, that other player was pretty insistent". And for that tone comment - it was about how his immediate thoughts were to claim OOC disliking. I don't like that because I feel it hides things. And I would like to point out that again he's doing the very thing he hates by painting me as emotional. I was not painting anyone anything.
Skull132 Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 While I understand that this has been sitting here for about 3 days, I'd like to see a bit more dialogue between Voyd and Killer before jumping in and doing mah thang.
Voyd2000 Posted December 25, 2015 Author Posted December 25, 2015 I could have phrased it differently, but I didn't mean it as "you've done this for sure" but "have you done this, that other player was pretty insistent". You are correct, I agree however being insistent doesn't necessarily mean being truthful And for that tone comment - it was about how his immediate thoughts were to claim OOC disliking. I don't like that because I feel it hides things. Never claimed anything, I suggested something and asked a question to help support or refute my suggestion. I had just recently killed a mouse who told me to fuck off in LOOC before I did anything to provoke them, In fact it was the LOOC comment that made me go after them, Thus I felt maybe that player was out to get even with their hostility fresh in my mind. Feeling like it hides things is irrelevant and subjective, As you stated it's your job to get to the bottom of issues, not emotionally project how one feels about a situation. Facts are always better than feels. And I would like to point out that again he's doing the very thing he hates by painting me as emotional. I was not painting anyone anything. The only painting I have done is with the colors I was shown, by taking the stance of angry parent with the "Don't take that tone with me" serves as just that, a painted picture of an upset parent / teacher / Insert preferred authority figure, I never made claim that you are being emotional, you must have picked it up from your own words being quoted back. In fact the only time I used the word Emotional was in my defence from being accused of taking some kind of negative tone in order to hide things based on subjective feelings.
Killerhurtz Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 I sort of forgot about this to be honest. So, the bottom of the story is, what would you have me do better?
Tenenza Posted March 5, 2016 Posted March 5, 2016 Since it's nearly been a month since anyone has posted in this, I'm going to be bumping it back up. If there aren't any more posts in the next 5 days, I'll consider closing it for inactivity.
Tenenza Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 Alright then, after speaking with Voyd2000 and letting this sit for two days, I think it's safe to say this is closed.
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