BYOND Key: BurgerBB
Staff BYOND Key: Pratepresidenten, Alberyk
Game ID: b45-dgBc
Reason for complaint: Enabling bad behavior.
Evidence/logs/etc: See below.
Additional remarks:
Lets keep this short since really the evidence is all you need to see.
A player said something pretty creepy to me in LOOC, as seen below.
I didn't ahelp it at the time, and I thought "Yeah don't say that." was enough. They never did anything like that again, but I shared the image in a public SS13 Coding channel because during there was a lot of weird stuff going on in other servers of a similar magnitude and personally I've had a rough week with behavior from Unathi players so I decided to share. Skull noticed the image and commented on it.
I lied to skull saying that I ahelped it. I didn't ahelp it or altered an admin, but I decided to think on what skull said. I determined that it would be best to actually report it considering admins tend to make fun of players for not ahelping things. I reported it to ParadoxSpace on January 30th, 2019 and he said it wasn't really worth dealing with, but he told admins anyways. I haven't' really heard from him since then about it so I assumed that it wasn't an issue.
Today there was a conversation in deadchat started by me when I commented on unathi uniforms being skimpier than Skyrim bikini armor. It was a semi-productive conversation as good points were brought up, such as them violating uniform regulations, and that other erp-centric focused severs don't have outfits this revealing.
and it eventually lead to me posting the censored image again when Alb started to say some pretty weird shit about how "not everyone is out to get you" and "don't play female unathi if you don't want to be treated like one" despite that being absolutely completely irrelevant to anything I'm saying. I forgot to screenshot that part, but I did screenshot this part which including a moderator saying that the behavior wasn't creepy, but instead cute, and alb not being helpful.
Like I'm going to be completely honest here. I feel like an actual fucking loser for posting this. I am legitimately questioning my sanity as I am writing this because I am being told that I should be okay with a complete stranger on the internet, who've I've had no conversation OOC with and little conversation ICly with, saying they want to give my character "tummy rubs". I am being told that I should "separate ic from ooc" despite the conversation being in LOOC and not IC.
My characters aren't me, I don't feel violated for someone wanting to give me tummy rubs. I don't give a shit about what happens to them which is why I play them wildly. Like just consider for a moment how bitter and hostile I am OOCly and then consider how they're not that ICly. I am not them, but I still think it's extremely reasonable for me to be uncomfortable for someone to say this sort of shit and even more so for staff to justify it and somehow claim that it's cute.
I am not making this complaint because I am a victim, I am making this complaint because this shouldn't be acceptable behavior. It shouldn't be acceptable behavior to justify this either as an administrator.