Please do contact the loredevs when you have issues. We are active and are looking for feedback.
A way to change this for dionae is being discussed.
It is.
Dionae have been massively changing over the past few months. We have actual active loredevs and lore in place to prevent people from using the species to powergame. If you see someone powergaming/breaking lore, inform the loredevs(myself and @Caelphon)
We have been doing the best we can to improve the quality of Dionae, but without actually telling us we cannot solve the issues. For all the complaining i've seen, those people rarely actually try talking to me or cael about it.